Frequently Asked Questions

  • People who want to feel emotionally and spiritually free.  They are done hiding, playing small, dulling their light, and suffering.  They want to live life on their terms and they want to support others to do the same.

  • When you have gone through a challenging human experience, you want to do everything in your power to help others so they don’t have the feel the way you did.  If there is one thing you can do to make one life brighter, you will do it.  That’s why bSparks was started.  There are so many people in this world with beautiful hearts who are ready to shine and support others to shine, too.

    Your lights each have a purpose that matters. 

  • Every person has a beautiful spark of light within them. Many of our sparks become buried, dull, or hidden to feel safe, survive, or fit in. Being a spark means finding your inner truth, your unique spark of genius, your purpose, and what lights you up from the inside out. When you have the courage to be your spark, you inspire others to do the same. At bSparks, we aim to see that spark light up and shine, knowing that your light can support others to do the same.

  • Human transformation is the process of becoming your best self. This involves changing old beliefs, programming, trauma, and rules that hinder your growth and dreams. By transforming what doesn't serve you, you'll uncover your true self, discover your purpose, shine your light, and positively impact the world.

  • Collective Transformation happens when multiple people or stories come together. In a safe space with a common purpose, these interactions reflect both the hidden parts and the bright light within you, greatly enhancing individual and collective transformation. Historically, transformation was more individual, but sharing our stories reveals that our experiences are universal, reducing isolation and enhancing healing. This collective approach addresses root societal issues, leading to better solutions.

  • bSparks' transformation is potent because it taps into your body's intuition and guidance to uncover what's ready for change. Unlike other methods that focus only on logic, bSparks integrates physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual aspects, recognizing that beliefs, expectations, and old trauma resides in our energy bodies, not just our minds. Sometimes, our brains cling to fears, hindering release. By letting our hearts lead, bSparks connects us to love, facilitating transformation.

    Moreover, this type of human transformation is accessible to everyone. It isn't bound by time like courses or seminars, nor does it rely on a single person's schedule. It's more affordable than many alternatives and provides a safe community where you can discover your spark and shine within a supportive environment.

  • Kim:  “I feel vastly different for being in this community.  I am finally Becoming…. I spent many years pushing and challenging myself to find my voice, use my voice, and speak my truth.  It wasn’t until bSparks where I was in a safe, loving, accepting community, where I could finally bloom.”

    Dee Dee:  “Sharing my story was amazing!  Having my truth witnessed made a difference in the way I thought and felt.  I was unburdened to a degree I had never been before.  The best part was seeing how sharing my story inspired others!”

    Devon:  “Since bSparks my perception of myself has really shifted.  I have a lot more compassion and empathy for myself which is something I have in truckloads for other people but never for myself.  Because of that shift, there is a gentleness and self-awareness.  I’m now free to just be me.”

  • Stories are humanity's most potent tool for transformation. They inspire belief in a better future and the courage to pursue it. Everyone, regardless of circumstances, has access to storytelling.

    Ownership of our story equals ownership of our power. Allowing others to dictate our narrative relinquishes control over our lives, leading to pain and disconnection from our true selves. By embracing our story, we empower ourselves to create a life that resonates with our truth.

    Sharing our story is a healing journey—it helps us heal wounds, release traumas, and challenge old beliefs. In safe spaces, sharing our story not only allows us to be seen and accepted but also inspires courage in others to do the same.

  • During tough times, it's easy to feel stuck, believing we'll never overcome our challenges. We might even resign ourselves to suffering because we doubt our ability to change. Without others who understand our struggles, transformation can seem daunting, and our loved ones may inadvertently hinder our growth due to fear of the unknown.

    However, your story can be a guiding light for someone else in their darkest moments. It offers:

    1. Belief in the possibility of overcoming hardships.

    2. Hope that they, too, can navigate through adversity.

    3. A roadmap to navigate their own journey.

    4. Assurance that they're not alone in their struggles.

    Your story may serve as a survival guide for someone facing similar challenges. Your unique experiences attract those seeking courage from your journey. Remember, even if you think your story isn't significant, it holds value for someone seeking the specific insights only you can offer.

  • You have the power to transform by leading with care and compassion. By tapping into your heart, you can access your body's wisdom for healing and growth. Transformation requires the following key elements.  If you have the following, you have the power to transform yourself and others:

    1. A safe space to express openly.

    2. Recognize and witness truth and courage.

    3. Love and encouragement to be the best version of self.

    4. Acknowledgment of unique gifts and strengths.

    Listen to your intuition to seek additional assistance such as therapy or coaching if necessary. We're here to help in your transformation journey, but we're not the only option. Remember, you don't have to go through this alone.